Not Neglectful? Think Again Gerry McCann

Not Neglectful? Think Again Gerry McCann

Recent news on the hunt for Madeleine McCann has revealed that their parents have spent ‘about a million pounds' so far in trying to find their missing toddler.

 

The fund that was set up to find their daughter is still active and the cash has been spent on various forms of investigation it has recently been revealed.

There can be no cost on finding your missing child, I agree with that, but what really got me angered was the Team McCann statement at the end of the press release when it states that Mr McCann again expressed his anguish at leaving Madeleine alone with twins Sean and Amelie as they went for dinner in Portugal's Praia da Luz resort.

But he said the couple were "not negligent" but "profoundly regret" what happened.

I hastily and angrily disagree with Gerry McCann and would like to ask him that if he doesn't see his actions as negligent will he be leaving his twins unattended on their next holiday? Can they not just admit that leaving their babies without proper supervision is wrong and irresponsible?

Constantly defending your own reckless behaviour smacks of either naivety or arrogance, and someone needs to raise this subject matter. Some areas of the press have been scornful and even accusatory towards the McCann's and newspapers have either been sued or threatened to have legal wolf hounds snapping at their throats, recently the detective who handled the case when Madeleine originally went missing has written an inflammatory book. He too is being threatened with the suing stick, yet no-one actually holds Mr McCann to account over his own seditious statement about being innocent of neglect.

This isn't another diatribe against the press hungry parents, because if my child had gone missing I too would move heaven and earth to find her, but I wouldn't deny neglect if it were my own careless actions that originally rendered my child vulnerable. Appearing stoical in their own defence over what actually is- a dangerous attitude to parenting will not win the public's heart and spur them onto help finding the missing child. The subversive behaviour of the McCann family has managed to distance people from their cause.

Just put your hands up Mr McCann and admit you were both wrong, people make mistakes and you and your wife are paying for that more than anyone I know, but just don't tell me that leaving your kids alone in an apartment is not neglectful. If you don't believe me and feel like suing, then click on the NSPCC website and check the law out for yourself.



posted by: fractalmom (reply)
post date: 09.07.08 (9:45 am)

Good point Janey. In the US, we have a similar case, a two year old who went missing. Mom didn't even bother to report her for a month...which was certainly suspicious. The gossip currently is centered around some DNA (hair) which was found in the trunk of a car (sound familiar) and which was proven to come from an already decomposing body. Also found however, was evidence that chloroform had been used to sedate the child, possibly resulting in unintended death which was then covered up by the mom. The thing that strikes me as rather odd, is that this apparently is a now somewhat common (what is common, 1 in 1,000,000 households?) practice of sedating children when you want to go out instead of getting a babywatcher/sitter/nanny or relative to sit with the kids.

Now, it makes me wonder, two pediatricians....a dinner part not too far away......quick sedation and OOOPS!! Dead baby.

Does make you kind of wonder in my book.



posted by: bronwynj (reply)
post date: 09.08.08 (2:34 am)

I don't like leaving my 15 year old home alone! Luckily we have security screens, & he's trained in a martial art.

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